it's been a while..

it's been a while since i last blogged. yup, blame my laziness. i do have a lappy, i do have 247 internet access or at least at the office. i was just lazy. and since jan 2010, a lot of things have happened.

1. i've been teaching for almost a year now..

at a college in PJ (note: i love PJ!!) it is not something i ever dreamed of when i was small. i always wanted to be something much bigger than what i've been doing, and do. i guess things don't always go as planned. "kita hanya merancang, Tuhan menentukan". but im glad i took the job earlier this year as I'm happy with what I'm doing now. everything seems clearer now. of course, there are times when i feel like this job is no fun, that i should ve taken up my dream job which was offered to me few months back. i know i would be enjoying every single moment if i took up the job. but i have to stick to the ground as i've set my goals and plan. so i have to stick to the plan. anyway, i love my new job! i love my new colleagues! and i love my students! ( and i love the times i get to get away from work !)

2. im going to finish my Master degree soon!!

darn! im getting lazier day by day. help me!! im so not gonna grad if i dont stop being lazy. im just blur now.. i wanna do it. 3 mths holiday has turned me into the opposite me. i miss those busy days.. when i didnt go out at all! my whole life was work , study, work, study...

3. i have cats!!!

i had 2 cats in the first place, they are nyiaunyiau and john johnny jonathan. johnny is my cat, nyianyiau is kambing's cat. 2 months later i adopted lily. few months after that, baby took adopted nyiaunyiau. and on 1st muharram, i was officially the owner of 8 cats after lily gave birth to 6 baby cats. 6 BABY CATSSS!!!! OMG i have lotsa cats nowwwww!!!!!!!!

4. bff got a boy!

yatoq delivered a healthy babyboy in june. his name is Ady Rifqy.

2010 has arrived!

obviously 2010 has arrived. it's january 4th today.
alhamdulillah, 2010's finally here with good news
1. starting new career
2. opps .. getting new brother in law ( sister getting married la .. she finally made up her mind )
3. sabah here i come!! holiday is also a good start i guesss.. eventhough tht means bln ni pokai
4. __________________ pls fill in the blank

i went to *** today, had to go few places before i get to settle my stuff. while i was trying to figure how the hell was i going to get my car out of there, cos there's only entrance to tht car park.. but no way out. bumped into this indian uncle who parked just next to me ( he just bought his toyota prius, nice.. wtj **** ) i asked him the way out of tht place, he asked me to follow him, he also admitted, that car park is confusing him too. we had little chat. then i went to the sgs. saw him there again! then he went out of there,, guess his prob is settle. unlike me, i had to wait nearly half an hour there. nearly fell asleep. when it comes to my turn.. while waiting for the lady to key in my name in the computer, that uncle appeared again, just next to me. uiks.. what a small world. and he's doing the same thing as me, registration. but he looks too old for that i guess. " eh we keep on bumping into each other la today ! " i just smiled at him..

anyway, i managed to settle my stuff today and im happy cos im going to start my hectic life tomorrow. ni pon seronok ? * sigh * then i did someshopping . beli buku baru!! excited kan?
hehehhee

a boring monday nite

its a not so ok raya this raya. so so.. but i had great time spending my 10 days of annual leave. lazying at home. still on holiday today. esok dah starrt keje tp malasnye nak gi keje esok. bole tak nak mc?? mmg food poisoning ni tak baik2 lagi.. evershince the 3rd day of raya. stopped at every petrol station and rnr membuang. aduhhh sakit betol perot.. siap demam2 pening kepaala mase tuh. dahla otw blk kl. teruk kan?

after tuh gi mlk dgn ren and baby. we went to the zoo. had fun there. zoo mlk has a lot of tigers, suprisingly. last time i went to national zoo they have like 2 or3 tigers only and sume dah tua2 pulak tuh.. tp kat zoo melaka ni gagah berani betol semua. baby suka betol tgk tigers and lion kejap2 dok aumm aummm hahahaha!! we stayed a nite in mlk and went back to kl on friday.

on saturday kemas2 rumah.. sunday.. erm..tido.. today.. nak gi servis kete tp tk dpt. queue ramai.. tambah lagi nak kene tuka sparepart tuh . dahtuh.. dia kata 3,4 jam gak amik masa.. tk sempat sbb smpai sana dah kol 1. so dia suh gi blk next week. hmm.. terpaksa la bgn awal2 pg next week. kambing keje hari ni. and i miss kambing today.. my teddy bear

all about women.. its quite true though..

taken from yahoo

What went wrong? Whether it’s a first date or a long-term relationship, when it comes to women here are five reasons she’s just not that into you.

You don’t have Ambition

It sounds simple but it’s often overlooked: women are attracted to men with ambition. Perhaps it’s a survival technique, a woman wants a man who’s going to be able to take care of himself, let alone a family. Or perhaps it’s just really attractive for a potential partner to have goals, dreams and aspirations. It’s not about having money, you can be wealthy and still lack ambition, it’s about having drive and looking forward and toward the future. Start volunteering, go back to school, set goals for yourself and have something to look forward to everyday—a purpose.

You don’t Follow Through

Whether you don’t know how to make plans or you just don’t know how to stick to them, a woman hates having to make an excuse for her partner. If you’re constantly nixing dinner plans at the last minute or showing up late for date night, she’s not going to be into you. Think about it the next time you’re hours overdue with no good reason at all. Chances are, she rushed home from work, rifled through her closet to find the perfect outfit, and stressed that she wouldn’t be finished blow-drying her hair in time for your knock on the door. So when you show up two-hours late, with no preemptive phone call, she’s going to be mad. But when you do it consistently, she’s going to move on.

You Give her too Much or too little Attention

It’s like the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears, its got to be just right. Meeting at a friend’s house party is not a date. Inviting her to dinner and then inviting your old fraternity brothers also is not a date. If you care more about your "bromance" than your romance, it will show and she’ll know. A woman wants to feel special, take her out on a real date, turn the cell phone off and make her feel like she’s the only person that matters. Conversely, if you’re the type of guy who hates it when she wants a girl’s night out, or you don’t give her any breathing room, she’s going to feel suffocated in the relationship and she’s just not going to be into you.

You’re just not her Type

Yes, all women have a type. These aren’t necessarily physical looks but innate personality traits. That doesn’t mean she’ll only date one type of man for the rest of her life but it’s rare that at the same time a woman is attracted to the family man who likes spending nights in watching reruns, she’ll also be attracted to the single-until-he-dies night owl, who’s idea of a good meal is any 24-hour restaurant. If you’re not the type for her at the stage in her life, she’s just not that into you.

You don’t see her as an Equal

A woman wants a relationship where she is an equal—and feels like one. The best relationships embrace each partner’s strengths, and each person complements the other. It’s clear to see: she just won’t be that into you if you’re constantly trying to one up her.

im a rooster

I was browsing tru the star online .. as usual. and found this article. i do hope they're true hahahaha eventhough muslims arent supposed to believe in this kina thing.

Rooster

Opportunities await you this year. You should have good luck in career, romance and wealth. But you also have some unlucky stars.

Career: With three big lucky stars smiling on you, you should make significant progress in your career. You need not go out of your way to look for opportunities as they will come to you. If you do your best, you’ll achieve success. The Rooster loves luxury and works hard to procure a better life. A significant amount of money could come your way this year, perhaps an unexpected inheritance.

Love life: The married Rooster will enjoy a wonderful family life. The single Rooster should prepare to begin a new relationship. It’s a nice time for Roosters to get married and have a baby.

Health: If pregnant, the female Rooster must tread carefully. The male Rooster may have liver problems, so watch your health.

Take note: Talk less, work more.

=) talk less.. work more? i wanna do something that requires talking and less sitting in front of the computer working..

my last day at work

yes, today is my last day at work. my gossip colleague takde hari ni pegi interview. so sad to spend the last day at work alone sambil tunggu file transfer ni gila lama aahh!! nak burn lg ni. gaji pon tak dpt lagi.. harap2 dpt cepat ler..

at the moment i have a lot of things in my mind. I have a lot of targets with timeframes and plans on how to achieve all the targets. but at the same time, kene fikir gak what are my priorities. priority no 1, priority no 2.. n so on.. but i guess 2009 is gonna be a challenging year for me. dah tua kot.. tuh yg byk fikir tuh. i just hope that everything will go well as planned. even if something else came up, hope they're the good ones..

me... bored

unfortunately, i always in the mood for blogging whenever im bored. but actually, i have a lot of work to do at home. but currently im not at home. doing some preparation for the interviews tomorrow. damn the recession! wish me luck peeps!

dahla rasa mcm nak demammm jer ni tetiba. mcm mana nak gi interview esok ni?
i still have my fyp to be submitted on tuesday. after that i'll be free like a birdie.. ye ke? and some things that need to be sorted out. relationship? marriage? at the moment, takde masanak fikir tuh. letak tepi dulu. takde keje ni.. kene pk cari keje dulu. love should be the last thing in our mind. love come and go. we'll jump into few ( or maybe more ) relationships before we decide to step into marriage life. it;s not easy to find the right person to share our life with. been there, done that. and not gonna repeat the same mistake again. if u ever have doubt, probably they're not the right person. in marriage matter, rationale thinking is important. its like making the right decision in our career or choosing our path. we dont simply follow our heart 100%. my little advice goes to my very dear fren. don't put love on top of ur list. they'll come eventually along the way. there's so much things to explore out there. the world is so big and we're so little. there are billions of ppl out there and u haven't really get to know each of them.